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How To Overcome Shyness - Are You Actually Afraid Of Success?
By admin | February 14, 2008
Are you too shy to get a girl? You’ve fancied someone from afar for a long time (longer than you care to remember) but you just can’t pluck up the courage to approach her and ask her on a date? I used to wonder how to overcome shyness, until I had an epiphany.
My ‘Eureka’ moment was realising that shyness is all a state of mind. Sounds obvious, but when you are a naturally shy person, you actually believe that everyone is watching you, waiting to see what you do, waiting for you to slip up so they can all point and laugh at you. This is, of course, because people don’t have enough going on in their own lives and exist simply to constantly watch you and wait for you to make mistakes. That’s right isn’t it?
It’s easy to scoff at the statement above if you are not a shy person. However, for those of us who do suffer from shyness it is a very real problem. Especially for males when it comes to dating, or rather, even before dating and getting the courage to even ask someone out on a date!
There are two types of shy people. Those who are scared of rejection - probably the most common type - but also those who are scared of success. Yes, you heard me right. I know several people who had problems overcoming their shyness to ask girls out on dates because they were actually scared the girl would say “yes”. Sounds crazy, right?
Think about it though, and it makes perfect sense. You’ve dreamt and fantasised about this one particular girl for weeks or months. You have taken her out on imaginary dates, and at the end of each date gone back for that imaginary coffee at her apartment. You’ve been the perfect stud, and she was (naturally) absolutely perfect in every way.
In reality though, you cannot overcome your shyness to ask her on a date because if she does accept, then WHAT DO YOU DO NEXT? Where should you take her? How do you act and what do you say?
The answer is that before you can start to date women, you must be comfortable with yourself. As you will have read in my other articles about the Alpha Male, it is all about your state of mind. Once you crack that, then you will become unstoppable!
Buy all the books you want on mystery methods and secrets of attraction to overcome your shyness with people, but the only one you really need is The Alpha Male System. So do yourself a favour, get this one first and you won’t need any more books. Think of all the trees you’ll save too!
Tags: alphamale, attraction, dating, get the girl, overcome shyness, shyness
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